Jesus said, “If anyone forces you to go one mile, go with them two miles”(Mt. 5:41). Herein is one of the great truths for living a happy life. It has long been my observation that people who are willing to do more, sacrifice more and give more are much happier than those who are content to meet only the minimum requirements of life. The happy people are those who do all they are asked to do “and then some.” They meet the expectations of their job, “and then some.” They devote themselves wholeheartedly to their families, “and then some.” They give time and effort to help others in the community, “and then some.” In every case it is the “then some,” – that second mile effort – that brings about joy and fulfillment.
Imagine how such an attitude could affect the church. What if every member of our congregation resolved to be faithful in attendance - “and then some?” What if we truly gave as we have been prospered – “and then some?” What if we supported the various programs of work as much as possible – “and then some?”
I heard of a man who had become dissatisfied with his wife and wanted a divorce. The attorney told him that he would make the necessary arrangements with one stipulation. “To make her really miss you,” he said, “go home and for one month do everything in your power to make her happy. Give it your best – ‘and then some.’ It will drive her nuts.” The man did as instructed and gave his best – “and then some.” When he returned to the attorney all of the paperwork was ready but he immediately protested. “How could I possibly divorce such a sweet gal? Tear those papers up at once!” What had brought about the change? It was his “then-some” attitude.
If you’re discouraged with how your life is going. If you’re discontented with your family, your friends or the church try going the second mile and giving just a little more. You’ll discover that the difference between “tri” and “triumph” is just a little “umph!”
